Hello everyone! The 8th day is like childbirth, we did an episiotomy…

Hello everyone! The 8th day is like childbirth, we did an episiotomy (incision), today the external stitches fell apart, the internal ones are fine, the doctor prescribed depantol candles, she says we won't sew it back up, has anyone had a similar situation? How does it heal afterwards, of course, it's terrible now, will it affect sex life? Share if you can?