Hello everyone. Who taught them about the regime?

Hello everyone. Who taught them about the regime? I'm going crazy soon! The daughter slept with us in bed a couple of times and now she only sleeps in a hug with my chest. She started falling asleep at midnight. I put her to sleep at 8-9-10. She sleeps for 30 minutes without me, then wakes up and doesn't have any eyes. She laughs, crawls somewhere. In the morning we sleep until 10. How do you find a suitable regime? In the morning it's 1:15 for the first nap, then 3 hours. Today there were three naps, one 2 hours, the second 1:15. I thought I would